doesn’t know that: when she meets you, you could be Jack Ryan, Jack Sparrow or Jack the Ripper. Even more terrifying is the fact that, over the course of her life, the biggest threats to her You need to understand how women evaluate your qualities and how they perceive the status, danger, opportunities and threats that you could present.
The better you learn to see these things from women’s points of view, the less unattractive you will be to them and the less confused, resentful and frustrated you will be by how they respond to you.
We’re not suggesting you have to become a gender psychologist or feminize your whole worldview.
They are based on the best, current scientific knowledge that we have about women’s psychology and sex differences.
We’ll also focus on women’s vulnerabilities, concerns and anxieties that you might not have considered before, because these are the aspects of the female experience that have long stood between men and a greater understanding of—and success with—women.
Go to a sports bar in any major city or college town on game day, and invariably you will run into a crew of gorgeous young women in skin-tight, cutoff referee outfits or school jerseys walking around, selling shot specials or beer buckets.
We have been working with young single men in our capacities as educators, public figures and authors for more than 30 years.
In that time, the most common question we’ve gotten from guys centers on how to increase their confidence with women.
When a man interacts with a woman, his greatest fear is sexual rejection and humiliation.
This causes him to spend as much time and energy (if not more) on defensive strategies to protect against rejection as he does on mating strategies to attract women.
It will help you avoid and resolve arguments, saving you hours of grief.
It will help you have better dates, cooler conversations and hotter sex.