It’s not uncommon for me to be at home on a Tuesday night and get a text asking to proofread a paper because he’s traveling the next morning.Also, prepare yourself to be an independent woman, because from February to May, baseball will consume his life.
For one, you learn how to have a life outside of your relationship.
Through the past few seasons, I have learned to keep my life balanced in regards to my studies, my health and my social life. If your guy has a bad game, you are his go-to girl for support, advice and comfort.
Plus, nothing beats that excitement that bubbles up when you realize you get to see your boyfriend after being apart for a week or two. If he has a good game, hats off to you because a good game equals ice cream and infinite snuggles while watching Netflix.
It’s the one day of the year where you hope and wish for flowers at your door, or a date with someone special.
While I love Valentine’s Day, it also kind of sucks. I date a baseball player, and anyone who knows sports knows that the season always begins over Valentine’s Day weekend.
While I give nothing but my full support to my boyfriend during season, I would be lying if I said I wasn’t bitter.However, after dealing with the past few seasons, you learn to look at the positives.As a former athlete at Illinois State University myself, I know what kind of commitment a Division I sport is made of. lifts, the two-a-days, the study tables, the travel to meets, I could go on forever.However, I currently spend my days as a NARP (non-athletic regular person), and fully commit my weekends to being a loving, supportive, baseball girlfriend. I love the sport, don’t get me wrong, but you have to be a special kind of person to be in a relationship with someone in a year-round sport.Let me give you a little insight: For starters, a typical baseball practice can range anywhere from two to five hours. This really goes for any athlete, but when you date a baseball player, it gets tough.Guess who took a nap for three hours and then was bored stiff the next two? The poor guys have four or five games a week, and when you miss class, homework piles up.